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Point~Of~No~Return · 06-15-2012, 12:22 AM

~i personally think ldr's are next to impossible but for some its perfection.

there always seems to be one that isn't secure with themselves or confident enough in who they are with to have total trust, if you do not have this it just wont work

its very costly and expensive ~ uprooting your life for what ifs

its hard to work and travel all of the time

you spend every moment just wanting to be with them which is gut wrenching and painful

~if you want it to work

work on it together

set boundaries

trust

communication

dont force issues give the person time you're building a level of trust and communication when you're scared from the start due to distance everyone has baggage be respectful and understanding of that

compromise

belief in yourself

belief in the other person

avoid malicious people - do not listen to rumors

by all means follow your heart think with your mind and love with your all

what wasnt a good relationship for one person doesnt mean for the next theyre not your heart

old saying~ one womans trash is another womans treasure

if you love them never give up hope it will work as its meant to be

have faith in your destiny all of lifes journeys are life lessons

06-15-2012, 12:22 AM	#89
Point~Of~No~Return Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Andro-SMILES Preferred Pronoun?: Andro~Hey You~Yeah I mean you!~ Relationship Status: i hold the keys to my heart and i am only willing to give it to one Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: California ~talking to the moon~ Posts: 145 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 567 Thanked 277 Times in 107 Posts Rep Power: 0	~i personally think ldr's are next to impossible but for some its perfection. there always seems to be one that isn't secure with themselves or confident enough in who they are with to have total trust, if you do not have this it just wont work its very costly and expensive ~ uprooting your life for what ifs its hard to work and travel all of the time you spend every moment just wanting to be with them which is gut wrenching and painful ~if you want it to work work on it together set boundaries trust communication dont force issues give the person time you're building a level of trust and communication when you're scared from the start due to distance everyone has baggage be respectful and understanding of that compromise belief in yourself belief in the other person avoid malicious people - do not listen to rumors by all means follow your heart think with your mind and love with your all what wasnt a good relationship for one person doesnt mean for the next theyre not your heart old saying~ one womans trash is another womans treasure if you love them never give up hope it will work as its meant to be have faith in your destiny all of lifes journeys are life lessons