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Originally Posted by IrishGrrl
Very interesting. I've thought about this very thing myself in relation to my husband..and my past relationships. Initially, my eye (and other parts) gravitate toward the traditional masculine appearence. What's wierd is..I dont really go crazy over someone who appears TOO masculine. There has to be that hint of softness...in thier hands, thier face..thier voice..thier eyes.
I too wonder..if my husband had been more feminine "looking" if I would have initially picked him out as someone I wanted to date. These days, I'm much more flexiable about it. I used to only date butches who were pretty masculine. Now when I see butches who are less masculine appearing..it's thier energy I gravitate towards.(if I were single and gravitating!!!)
Another question that plaques me..
Am I the only femme that thinks..even if my partner is female ID'd..that.
I'm the girl
and
you are the boy?
And what does that mean?
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I'm totally with you in the line of thought that, though I'm attracted to femininity... (outward feminine cues etc) but
more does not necessarily equate to more attractive... as in the more stereotypically feminine doesn't raise the woo factor at all.
There is an essence definitely, the outer cues attract but it's the feminine energy that has the woo-ing power.
(I agree with you on the boy/girl thingy too in that context)
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