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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch
I don't misunderstand this guy at all--I understand him more than I really want to frankly.
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I agree with everything you said, my comment was more a response to okieblue that if we cant understand them, we cant ever change it.
I think saying we cant look at why because we just will never understand feels like throwing your hands up in the air and say I give up. I think there will probably always be unpredictable events that we cant stop short term. But we can prevent a lot by the society we build together. There is a reason why these things happen more often in some places than others and by some people way more than others.
And like you and honeybarbara said, there is NOTHING he said that has not been said a million times before. The things he believed about women is the same thing men everywhere think about women.