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Old 07-13-2010, 10:08 PM   #211
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@naturelover...there are different levels of trust naturally and you don't mention the nature of your trust-shyness now. some have fidelity issues, for some it's financial etc. either way, you have to watch for red flags and not let your attraction or feelings for someone dissuade you from your instincts. ask questions. be wary of redirection from your questions...ie changing the subject/avoiding. ignoring the subtleties will not bring you a healthy relationship. there are books out there that can teach you what the warning sign are and how to recognize them. Wwe all have to learn to wade through the trenches when returning to single status. trick is not to make repeat mistakes by finding the same kind of person on the next go-round. I hope this helps somewhat.
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