I think the truth of the person comes out regardless in real time, or face to face on skype. I think we always know from the beginning. I believe we see signs and we chose to ignore or pay attention. Reputation in real life and online has some validity but the source is always important to note. I know from myself from experience i have never listened to others opinions of people I always gave people a chance, even if they were right at the end.
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Originally Posted by girl_dee
i will come back to this but one thing that is a positive for me.. is history.
Example..
i meet you in a bar.. i have no idea who you are.. how you treat femmes... if you are a player..
i meet you in a chatroom on this site... i probably know you from the threads... or reunions etc... i can see a history.. i can see if you and i have similar interests or opinions.. etc
if you ARE a player it will likely show up online somewhere...
a LOT of information can be gained when you decide to date someone online.
GREAT thread Knight!
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