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Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?:
Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?:
She, her
Relationship Status:
Committed to being good to myself
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: West Coast
Posts: 8,258
Thanks: 39,306
Thanked 40,800 Times in 7,290 Posts
Rep Power: 21474856
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Since am new to this, I would like some feedback please:
How do you handle it as a femme if you find yourself attracted to the mind/intellect/politics, etc., of a butch on the planet (and their picture doesn't hurt)?
If you are a butch do you send a pm or wait to see if the femme sends you one?
Do you tell them you would like to get to know them better?
Do you wait to see if they respond to you?
What if they give you quite a few reps on your posts but nothing beyond that?
Do you read between the lines that they just have no interest in getting to
know you better beyond appreciating your posts?
I am rather old school, kind of shy & in no way needy & would hate to be perceived as such.
Thanks,
Anya
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Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
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UN Human Rights commissioner
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