05-27-2010, 11:33 AM
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How Do You Identify?: Dominant Stone Butch Daddy
Preferred Pronoun?: She
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Metropolis
I feel absolutely no animosity toward butches of any ID. I feel like all masculine ID's here, female ID, male ID, butch woman, TG, etc all have the right to be exactly who they want without being questioned about it... just as I do.
If I'm not mistaken that's what the community is about right? My questions are:
-As a butch of whatever ID, do you feel animosity towards (entire groups) of other butch IDs?
No
-Do you see yourself or ID as being at "war" with another ID?
No
-Do you see any group of masculine ID's having an agenda to attack another group?
No
That said I often see when (insert any butch ID) speaks about themselves or issues with what-ever it sometimes taken as an affront to others ID. Often by people who don't even ID as either in question.
That is a problem I do see often, is this the reason for the perception of a ID war"?
Serious sometimes I feel stupid because I'm not seeing it, and I'm not feeling invisible to, attacked or dismissed by any other group of masculine ID folks.
Thanks,
Metro
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When I do speak up as a butch woman there seems to be some hostility from a few and a general uneasiness amongst more than a few. That is how it seems to me. It does not come from one specific gender identity.
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