I have recently begun concentrating more on my spiritual self and going back to my ole gurus. Marianne Williamson, Carolyn Myss, among others. So y'all may be getting a lot of their quotes in the near future. Thank You for indulging me.
Marianne Williamson says:
Think about the person you want to be with. Your dream lover, soul mate etc. Think of all their traits physical, emotional, spiritual, political, intellectual etc etc. Go to town and really get down to the details.
Now. Imagine what kind of person that dream lover would want to be with.
And that is the person you want to concentrate on! Get it?
So, its back to the gym and rebooting the spiritual life for me!