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I do see a hierarchy in the femme "realm" just as I do with butch.
It's appears to me to not only have to do with outdated policed perceptions of femininity in mannerisms and appearance, but also how you identify- a to z, lesbian to transsensual... high to low... and strangely enough sometimes to where you're partner falls in the "butch hierarchy".
Oh let's not forget... how a femme behaves in the bedroom, because god forbid she top a butch... or straps (eta: or has so-called "lesbian sex").
Good thread... I'll be interested in hearing more.
Metro
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Last edited by Jett; 05-17-2010 at 10:59 AM.
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