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2qt · 08-22-2012, 11:56 PM

Most important was to value myself a little more and know my needs and wants are equally as important in the relationship....

To not have the expectation that they can read my mind and know what I am thinking no matter how many years we have lived together......

To keep the value of friendship, take the time out to visit them, have that girls weekend away, or just a girls night out so they never feel lost in the transition of my relationships......

To let the past go and not bring it into my today so my future partner will never feel that they are like them or simply not good enough as the last......

To never go to bed on an argument always let them know they are loved as it might be the last night you sleep in the same bed together....

To not focus on those small nitty gritty annoying things that are in the end not that important....

To say I am sorry when I know I was wrong without putting up my walls......

And to not rush love, if it's meant to be it will happen naturally without forcing it......

08-22-2012, 11:56 PM	#99
2qt Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her.. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Mothership Posts: 873 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 861 Thanked 1,967 Times in 582 Posts Rep Power: 15312202	Most important was to value myself a little more and know my needs and wants are equally as important in the relationship.... To not have the expectation that they can read my mind and know what I am thinking no matter how many years we have lived together...... To keep the value of friendship, take the time out to visit them, have that girls weekend away, or just a girls night out so they never feel lost in the transition of my relationships...... To let the past go and not bring it into my today so my future partner will never feel that they are like them or simply not good enough as the last...... To never go to bed on an argument always let them know they are loved as it might be the last night you sleep in the same bed together.... To not focus on those small nitty gritty annoying things that are in the end not that important.... To say I am sorry when I know I was wrong without putting up my walls...... And to not rush love, if it's meant to be it will happen naturally without forcing it......