05-15-2010, 05:29 PM
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Originally Posted by weatherboi
Hi everybody!!
I am opening this thread to discuss a topic that keeps getting brought up in some form or fashion throughout various threads.
I am a trans/submissive/bottom/guy, that is in his second Femme led relationship. My first started over 20 years ago. I left that relationship without any instincts. I moved forward topping every aspect of my life and destroyed my own trustful nature. I got therapy and here I am.
The great thing about our community is we have all participated in evolving gender identity in our own way. This is why the spectrum is so wide.
I keep running into those "less than" conversations about energy exchange and how there seems to be a stigma with this type of intimate bond. My experience so far has been mostly from a corner watching others. I have been able to dodge the "belittle me bullet" from outsiders but it is just a matter of time before somebody addresses me as "less than" because of my relationship style. Sometimes I think it all revolves around misogyny and maybe even some mysandry. Any thoughts on this particular subject?? Any other subjects/experiences that will add value would be greatly appreciated!
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I admire you for starting this thread.......and I just think you are yet another dear piece of our Community Puzzle.....
And there you have it.
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