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I am easily overwhelmed by the big, the complex and my imagination will turn hard things in to potentially horrible things when contemplating the potential effects what ever *this* current bad thing is.
So I break it down.
I first remind myself, rather quickly, of what is positive now- roof over head that is mostly functional? Check.
Me, my butch, and furbabies currently have food that will sustain us? Check.
for this moment, car is functioning? check
Ok. now one foot in front of the other- what do I need to do IN THIS MOMENT about the current situation?
and then I take it in moments by moments until I forget I am needing to put one foot in front of the other and I am just DOING it.
And then, somehow,
it gets better.
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