It isn't easy. Being femme makes it even harder. I feel that, if you are a femme, you have to be the one to start up the conversation. You have to let the person you are interested in actually get the idea that you are interested.
I feel like butches have an easier time meeting people because they are not invisible (most often).
I don't do that starting the conversation thing. Lol. I am really just too shy.
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