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Originally Posted by Mister Bent
Without a brilliant, engaging, provocative mind, there is nothing for me.
The rest would be irrelevant.
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I agree. If someone cannot stimulate me intellectually then it is pointless for me.
Looks are important and I have aspects I am attracted to like butch/FtM, smells good, wears great shoes...but it's "everything else" about the person tends to make them more attractive to me. It can also make someone less attractive. If you don't have similar values like kindness, politeness, respect, honesty and the all-important traits like a witty, somewhat dry sense of humour, knows how government works (odd I know), cares about what is going on in their neighborhood and all over the world, and treats others how they would expect to be treated then it won't work.
I have met some really gorgeous people on the outside that aren't so pleasant on the inside and it ruins everything.