Ladies, if I may...
A gentleman is a gentleman is a gentleman.
If one may assume, that the "first date" is not the first meeting, then letting the gentleman plan the date without any consideration is less than acceptable. As I may only speak for myself, a "first date" may include dinner and a show. I live in Las Vegas. I would need to take into consideration the lady's preference before planning where to dine, and shows that she may have already attended, show she would care to see, and shows she has no desire to see. Nothing will ruin an evening more than when presenting the tickets than hearing, "Yes, this is a wonderful production, I saw it last week!"
Please do not race me to the door, I will open them for you. Allow me to be the gentleman that I am.
Please conduct yourself like a lady, which should go without being said, but included due to past dating disasters.
One never gets a second chance to make a good impression on a first date.
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