1st date (couple years ago) ended with me taking my pants off and asking her to watch me.
she fell in love and stuck around.
I am SUCH a lady.
(I was informed that I scared the hell out of her that night,
but not that much apparently)
FOR ME - there are no rules.
Just have fun and do what you want to do.
The best way to get to know someone is to be yourself.
oh - do not get me flowers. I have allergy triggered asthma and will be busting out my inhaler and THAT is not too sexy