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Originally Posted by Blaze

I don't want to be seen in the shops trying to fondle a night gown.

That is too funny!!

Okay... here's what you do. If you cannot ask her what size she wears--really, that's the best option, but sometimes you can't--check her closet and drawers, and see what size most of her clothes are. Then, pay attention to what she wears that you like the best, and check the sizes on those items--write the size down so you don't make any mistakes, k?

Now think about WHY you like it the best. Does it fit her loosely? Does it hug her curves? Next time she wears it, DO fondle her... see if you can tell what she's wearing under it. If she's wearing a corset or shaper of any kind, DO NOT buy that size in lingerie, k? Buy the size of most of her clothes, in that case. But if she's only wearing a bra--or nothing--under it, then you're good on the size.

Remember there is a difference between sexy slinky lingerie for going to bed in and warm pj's for actually sleeping in. She might prefer pj's to be a little looser.

Go back to thinking about your fav outfit for her, not just the way it fits, but the color and the style of it. It is plain? Does it have ruffles or lace? Is it a print, or a solid color? Is it a true clear jewel tone? A pastel? A warm autumn color? Look at all the clothes she looks best in, so you can get some sense of the colors that go best with her skintones. If in doubt, avoid buying red, orange, lime green or lemon yellow--only buy one of those colors if you're certain you can tell the right shades, k?

NOW go shopping.... go to her favorite store, and have fun. Bring a color pic of her with you, and ask a salesclerk for help with colors and styles if you need to.

Good luck!! Let us know how it goes!