Thanks, Merlin, for this thread, such a lovely idea.
Hypothetical magic words between Femmes & the Butch, Boi, Stud, AG, or... in their lives:
To the Femme : "Honey, you look beautiful, you look fabulous, you make me so hot for you!"
From the Femme:"Oh baby, you look so handsome!" she says smiling & reaching to gently straighten the tie, or collar, or brush back a stray hair or two with her finger tips.. then looking her loved one in the eye she says, "I love you, baby. You rock my world".