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Originally Posted by candy_coated_bitch
There's definitely butches and trans guys who like other butches and trans guys. I've known a number of couples over the years.
I think sometimes we get stereotypes in our community about sex and attractions and who butches and femmes are--but as individuals we are all much more complicated, of course.
If exploring something with another masculine ID'd person is something you want, I am sure you can find someone open to it.
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Yes, I would venture that say in looking at my combined experience with early 20 something FTMs professionally and personally (internet and in person)
at this moment, there is a HUGE amount of FTMs who date cis males. Of course, you see them dating other FTMs, but I see a lot of young FTMs in the cis gay men's community or who are married cis males while they were living as females. It is really interesting. I seriously would say the majority of the early 20's FTMs that I currently interact with are coupled with cis males or only date cis/trans males.
Sorry, I suppose I am getting off track...CCB'S statements about trans guys dating other masculine identified individuals got my brain going (but I was talking FTMs specifically)
Butch on butch? Honestly, I only know a couple of Butches IRL, so my experience with butches is only on butch/femme sites. I would venture that in general the younger population are more open to dating more than one gender identities.