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Originally Posted by Dylan
If sex and gender are not the same (as we all pretty much agree on after numerous break-downs of it all)
Then, seems to me, butch on butch wouldn't necessarily be a matter of homosexuality but rather homogenderality
I'm sexually attracted to males and females and folks who don't ID as either...but there are some genders I have no interest in dating
Could Be A Matlock Theory Too Though,
Dylan
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hmn. dunno. I have a friend here for the past 7 years, she's a butch woman, drag king, ID's as a butch woman and dates a transqueer boy - he self ID's as an xxboy. They are different genders. but they still consider themselves a butch/butch couple (in the loosest of terms). They go to HardOn, sex club for gay men that include other queers and the times I've gone, it's been mostly maculine/masculine in terms of dyke/trans/genderqueer/men/cismen in there. So not the *same/homo* genders...
I was thinking about it further today. most of the couples who are masculine/masculine in my circle of friends aren't strictly butch/butch. It's trans/trans, butch/trans, trans/cisman, butch/cisman, butch/genderqueer. I don't think I know a butch/butch couple... I don't think I've met one since toronto (where I was also hugely ignored/dismissed for being feminine).
[eye ball roll self realisation] I obviously have a chip about this.[/eye ball roll self realisation]