I haven't read this entire thread as I remember all too clearly the huge arguments that came up in the 80's when discussing this topic.
I ran across this video just a minute ago and thought it appropriate for a thread about Lesbian sex. I apologize if it has already been posted.
It's called Hearts Cracked Open, a film about Lesbian Tantra. Not everyone's cup of tea, but relevant none the less.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...9732300321633#