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Soft*Silver · 03-21-2010, 10:56 AM

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Think about the person you want to be with. Your dream lover, soul mate etc. Think of all their traits physical, emotional, spiritual, political, intellectual etc etc. Go to town and really get down to the details.

Now. Imagine what kind of person that dream lover would want to be with.

And that is the person you want to concentrate on! Get it?

so.....you need to "create" yourself to meet the needs of someone else so they will be attracted to you? Am I intepreting this wrong?

03-21-2010, 10:56 AM	#71
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,502 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,428 Thanked 15,619 Times in 3,976 Posts Rep Power*: 21474856	[QUOTE=key;70926] Think about the person you want to be with. Your dream lover, soul mate etc. Think of all their traits physical, emotional, spiritual, political, intellectual etc etc. Go to town and really get down to the details. Now. Imagine what kind of person that dream lover would want to be with. And that is the person you want to concentrate on! Get it? so.....you need to "create" yourself to meet the needs of someone else so they will be attracted to you? Am I intepreting this wrong? __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears