I came out at the age of 38, chucking aside a perfectly fine marriage with a perfectly fine man. Except it all was a lie.
My Dad passed away before I could tell him, and my mom said “oh, ok”. My sister was furious and didn’t speak to me for weeks...she finally told me that she was upset because I hadn’t told her sooner that I was living a lie.
No one in my family cared one way or the other, in fact I have a lesbian cousin who came out before I did.
I really feel badly for all of you who did not have support from the very people who were supposed to have your backs no matter what.
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