Beloved that is so sweet. Thank you. I got very lucky. No worries on the pressure.
When it comes to going from LDR to living together I do think it's important to take your time and really make sure you are ready to take the next step. However, I don't think x number of months or years is what will make it successful. People can be LDR for a very long time and still not work out. Until you live with someone you are not really going to know how things will be day to day, no matter how honest someone is. If possible, have long visits before moving. That's the closest thing you can have I think.
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Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.
- Rainer Maria Rilke
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