That it is worth the risk leaving a comfortable, long term relationship to go after what you truly need and want (even if it does take more than 10 years to find it)
That it is far better to be single than to be in a bad relationship.
Spending that time being single gives you the opportunity to focus on yourself and gain confidence that you really are not desperate and you will wait for the right relationship to come along and if it doesn't you will be just fine.
That all the mistakes and stumbles along the way do help prepare you for the right relationship and helps you appreciate it even more.
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Love consists in this, that two solitudes protect and touch and greet each other.
- Rainer Maria Rilke
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