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Originally Posted by ruby_woo
Don't forget to remain your own person and still do your own thing. Don't get lost in somebody else, because you'll be really lost when it's over.
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I love that you said this.
I have two sisters in long term marriages and I have to say I never
want a long term relationship of mine to resemble what they have.
They are both completely dependant on their husbands for everything.
The
only thing they do "without" their husbands is go to work
or the store.
No outside friends , no outside activities ever feels so smothering to me.
A car ride to visit me "alone" (45 min drive) is way too scarey for either of them to even consider, let alone attempt.
It's like they have had their sense of adventure completely sucked out
of them. I really dont get it.