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Originally Posted by Brock
I have local friends who would be defined as a butch on butch couple. Also, saw a lot of that in the army. Personally, it is not for me. I am a stone butch whose only sexual attraction is with the girly femmes - the ones who only enjoy being "done to" and lack all desires of "doing to."
Edit: Need to add, the type femmes I am speaking of above, outside the bedroom, we share equally in the relationship.
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Genuinely not trying to be confrontational but I'm not sure that this post rests comfortably with me i.e. maybe not intentional but my reading of it is that being "
done to" is an element of being a "girly femme" and "doing to" is something of a polar opposite.
Also, whether someone is "
done to" or "
doing to" in the bedroom, why does that necessarily indicate a lack of equality in the bedroom ..... surely, if it's what both parties want, it is as equal in the bedroom as sharing equally in the relationship outside of the bedroom.