I think it's fine and dandy to state our desires and preferences without having to belittle others when doing so.
That whole thing about equal and all that was poorly worded in regards to how a Femme is and how Femmes are being portrayed.
If a person wants to set a hierarchy and exclude Femme out of it I will and do have an issue with it.
I'm glad others do too and called it out. It'll be a good learning experience for all involved
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Originally Posted by MarineCorps1
You're right, Toughy, language IS powerful.
So is what one CHOOSES to hear.
You make a great point in how ChainerBoi could have worded his statement by telling him that he could have said "For me, ...etc.", but you completely overlook the fact that, in his original post, he said EXACTLY that. He said the exact words "for ME" (emphasis added).
I've read a lot of posts on here in different forums that got my blood to boilin', or that I was ready to respond a certain way to, until I took a second to re-read what the person said, and fully understand it.
I think most of us would agree that what ChainerBoi said could have been said better and in a more tactful way, but I think we can all ALSO agree that he probably didn't mean it the way some folks took it.
Maybe we ALL just need to ease up a bit...?
At any rate, thanks to ALL for their comments.
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