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Originally Posted by sanee66
Honestly, and for us femmes that are interested, we cant get anyone to take notice.
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Sanee, thanks for this. I pass as straight...always. And I'm not really into rainbows or triangles so I'm only visible as queer in queer spaces, and even then only if I have my hand in the back pocket of a lovers carharts.
But I think there have to be some other indicators that other queer folk can pick up on, if they're looking. These are the first few that come to mind:
1. vintage styleyness
2. artsy/creative/alternative looks (stuff that clearly isn't from the mall)
3. really red lipstick
4. being overdressed
5. rejecting cisdudes (gently of course)
What do you all think? And what are some of your femme spotting tricks?
And, if i were to ever get up the courage to approach a stranger i was reasonably confident was FTM...how do you guys like to be hit on?
So far i've only ever handed boifolk a note with my phone number. And that's worked but it would be nice to actually connect in that moment rather than getting a text later.