07-18-2012, 05:52 AM
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Originally Posted by IslandScout
This is a fascinating thread. Some of my favorite people on the Planet are here and the discussion is so grounded and thoughtful.
I don't have any insight to add, but Dee, your parter's wife's definition of jealousy really struck home with me. I had jealousy toward a partner's ex, once, and it still makes me sad to think about it.
It wasn't that I felt she was giving away something that belonged to me, it was that she was giving away something she had never given me.
And the ex was so mean to her, which made it even more painful to watch.
I had never thought of it that way till I read your post.
Scout
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Yes yes i went through this too, and back then talked to my Sister about it, when she explained it that way, it was dead on. i've experienced what i feel is jealousy once in my life, and i hope to never feel that pain again. i was more angry with myself for being jealous. i feel i was fighting for something that was never really mine, i know that now.
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