I love this
I love how diverse we all are....
for me personally, i am old school and i love old school treatment....please pay for my dinner, open my doors, hold my hand or let my hand rest in the crook of your arm, make sure im on the inside as we walk down a street this shows the world that you respect me and that im yours for the evening.
im not opposed to "dutch" just communicate that.
im also not opposed to planning a date...however i don't want to plan the first one..immediate turn off for me...im also not flattered when someone says i want to take you out on a date by the way i want you to also pay...again another turn off.
yes sometimes knowing who is paying for dinner and such is important.......
communication is important upfront....
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