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Originally Posted by Julie
In many communities homosexuality is considered deviant sex and kink.
Gay men are still placed along side with pedophilia.
I am not disagreeing - I think the parents need to speak with the child, if they have not already done so. We really do not have all the details and all we are doing is judging.
Do you not see the judgment here? And all this based on a few lines of text.
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Yes I am making a judgment, you are right. However, given what the OP said, I don't think my judgment is
unreasonable. I don't consider myself a judgmental person, in that I don't condemn people for having a different point of view or living a different lifestyle than I do. (And I am a very kinky guy in the bedroom, dungeon, etc myself!) Consenting adults have the right to do what they please as long as it doesn't harm anyone. According to the OP, this kid is really uncomfortable. He isn't a consenting adult. Therefore, it
is harming someone.
Perhaps we don't know the whole story, and there are other factors to consider that we don't know about. I can only go on what the OP said and I find the described situation to be very disturbing and unfair to the child.