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How Do You Identify?: Mr. Queer Butch.
Preferred Pronoun?: He/They.
Relationship Status: Butchelor.
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Portland.
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Speaking for myself, of course, I think there are several things at play: firstly, we are socialized as female (generally), and therefore not generally accustomed to making the first move. Secondly, it can be dangerous to make a move when you are a butch. Lastly, I have no interest in straight women, so yeah, if I assume/think someone is straight, I keep my energy to myself.
Overall, I do think that knowing that the opening is there, so to speak, allows me to feel comfortable expressing interest. No opening, no interest.
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