[DapperButch]

Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

what is a generic lesbian?

Originally Posted by LipstickLola

Now, as far as this "generic lesbian"? thang? WTH?

I am pretty confident that when Dance-With-Me says generic lesbian, she means a lesbian whose gender presentation does not keep in line with the stereotypical butch or femme gender presentation.

I know the area she lives in well, and the term carries no negative connotation, and it is also rare to see a butch or femme gender presenting individual around that area. Since most often when one sees an attached butch it is with a femme (in that location), and Dance-With-Me is seeking a butch, it makes sense that she wants to signal she is a femme when looking for a partner.

Hopefully, Dance-With-Me will clarify if this is incorrect.