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Originally Posted by desd
From past relationships, I have learned:
I am gay *regardless* of how my partner IDs - it does not alter me.
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Yes that! I've only had one lesbian question my lesbian label. It was one of those topsy turvy situations where she couldn't see my point of view and I couldn't see why she couldn't see.
It eventually came out that she
didn't see herself as 100% gay despite being in a lesbian relationship, so couldn't wrap her head around why I still
did, despite being with a man.
It's important to hold onto your own ID, which is something I'd learned in a previous (abusive) relationship.