06-02-2011, 09:22 AM
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femme
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femme ones
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Merlin it happens both ways and it is certainly not just "femmes" that have doubts about their looks. I have told many people, doesn't matter how they ID, and have gotten the same response.
It could be because they want reassurance or a little more attention to what they are wearing than what you perceive to be giving, maybe make sure *you* aren't just shrugging it off and wanting to know you mean it or truly feel they don't look their best.
Who knows. But, positive reinforcement, butch, femme etc... is always nice. 
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