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Old 12-29-2017, 10:15 PM   #17
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Originally Posted by Lyte View Post
I'm so glad!

Two other thoughts come to mind... very likely unrelated but ... you know I still must share!

If I find that I'm then one who's initiating the interactions ... twice... even if she responds favourably... then I take that to mean that she's not interested in interacting even on a friendly level. I respect that message and take my leave. My point being... is that interaction should be initiated on both sides.

Second thought...

In this day and age... with all the kooks out there ... particularly online... perhaps the most courteous thing a butch could do is let the femme dictate the level and manner of contact she's comfortable with... and ... to let her dictate it when she's good and ready to do so!
Oh, trust me...I am the one who says "I find you attractive...do you find me attractive?" There isn't any guess work involved.

I don't believe in game playing, I am always up front.

I guess I am the direct one, and will continue in this manner. No matter how much I wish some butch would come along and say the same thing to me. Just once!

It's cool, I guess I'm the driver.
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