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Originally Posted by cuddlyfemme
I've been told the exact same thing regarding how my dating pool would enlarge regarding Trans guys
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My own personal pool is pretty big. The water feels lovely & quite warm.
My criteria pretty much is sexual attraction-do I feel those butterflies? Is my heart pounding? If yes, that is the first step. Butch? Yes! TG? OK-fine with me-yes! Daddy? OK, I am interested-tell me more about the dynamic please! Yes! Stone butch? OK, lived as a stone femme in love for a long time!
I am not talking about all those other values that are so important-I am strictly talking about the initial attraction that tells one: yes, I would love to go out with you!
The pool shrinks a great deal when you are older. Not my choice, it is just a
reality. I am not limiting it by my identity as a femme.
I am dipping my toe in the pool, but I have not jumped and no one has pulled me in the pool (or pushed me in either...).
Regardless of how big or small our dating pool is, don't we at least need to
take that chance? As long as my own personal boundaries are respected, since age is now a factor in my dating pool; I personally need to be open to all
possibilities (which I may not have considered in my 20's).
Cannonball coming! Splash!