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Member
How Do You Identify?:
Casual Femme Saphiosexual
Preferred Pronoun?:
she, her
Relationship Status:
Divorced
Join Date: Aug 2017
Location: Albuquerque, NM
Posts: 376
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This has changed radically for me over twenty years. Twenty years ago I was definitely prey.
Last fall I stalked someone at a leather weekend (in order to determine what I might use to start a conversation, nothing more) and eventually wound up offering to buy her a cup of coffee. Success with the coffee and almost success with more but alas it was not to be.
There are still times when I need a clear signal that more might be welcome. So I put a lil bait out there and if it's snapped up, it's on.
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"And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom" Anais Nin
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