If someone was to say
Snow you ain't getting no nookie cause you (insert whatevs)
I'd laugh, and go get me some nookie elsewhere, period..
As for your desires, I say go for it, life is way to fucking short to miss out, you may have missed out on some super hot sexy time with SUV driving hottie, oh well at least you have spank bank material.
PS
As for that french maid who's gonna wear that conundrum, tight leather pants and an aline shirt look mighty fine around a butch physique...
Just sayin'