Personally, butch/butch is hawt and I've never quite understood why some people are adverse to it.
Then again, I am a "whatever-it-takes, even-if-that-means-licking-your-left-elbow-on-a-blue-moon-odd-month-tuesday".
You have to live your life and find joy in it. If its butch/butch that works for you, I say have at it!
Christie