Butch Femme Planet - View Single Post - Question to butches and how they deal with differences in dating

Shystonefem · 01-18-2015, 03:23 PM

I am femme and you a not want my opinion but...

I don't jump into see and I don't like casual sex. I won't bring up the discussion of exclusiveness an
but I will respond if asked.

I don't date younger butches, I date butches close to my age or a bit older.

I did have a butch think that we were "exclusive". It was awkward. She didn't have my phone number or my email or my address... but she felt like we were a couple.

I don't think it is a butch thing or a femme thing, I think it is a person thing.

I probably won't date anyone if I am interested in someone but if you assume we are exclusive without talking about it, we have a problem.

I guess what I am saying is.... don't expect anything from me unless you discuss it with me. It is when you assume that we have a problem.

I am honest and I am fiercely loyal but, before you get that loyalty - you have to ask first.

01-18-2015, 03:23 PM	#41
Shystonefem Member How Do You Identify?: Stone Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Shy for President Join Date: May 2014 Location: NH Posts: 1,105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,475 Thanked 3,678 Times in 898 Posts Rep Power: 21474847	I am femme and you a not want my opinion but... I don't jump into see and I don't like casual sex. I won't bring up the discussion of exclusiveness an but I will respond if asked. I don't date younger butches, I date butches close to my age or a bit older. I did have a butch think that we were "exclusive". It was awkward. She didn't have my phone number or my email or my address... but she felt like we were a couple. I don't think it is a butch thing or a femme thing, I think it is a person thing. I probably won't date anyone if I am interested in someone but if you assume we are exclusive without talking about it, we have a problem. I guess what I am saying is.... don't expect anything from me unless you discuss it with me. It is when you assume that we have a problem. I am honest and I am fiercely loyal but, before you get that loyalty - you have to ask first.