love is being able to tell each other during the middle of an argument, that this will get resolved because we matter to each other.
damn right skippy! I love when I never have to fear any argument is going to break us up. Too many people want to just walk away when horns lock. They escalate the minor problem into a break up situation. Thats like two 3 year olds battling over a toy and then sitting down and bawling like babies because neither got everything they wanted. Grown ups know in an argument, neither person gets everything they want. And both people's feelings are damaged and need tended to when the argument is over.
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
The field sees, the forest hears
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