I see femme as just a fluidity of inner beauty that resonates who you are and who you want to be.
I see all gender that way.
If a masculine butch stood in front of me or FtM or Trans or any person and said they feel they are femme, or they ID as femme?
More power to them!!!!
There is no "femme detector test" that we walk into and it closes the door and the light goes green or red. It is our own truths.
IMO the one and ONLY thing that is important with IDs is what you, yourself decide. There is no ifs, ands or buts or becauses or rules or guidelines how you dress or who you take to bed, about it at all.
If you are straight and want to ID as femme? Do it. If your vision is that femme's only date lesbians or other femmes or FtMs or whatever...have at it. No one's view or opinion on things will ever negate or transfer my ID. No one has the power to do that. No one ever will.
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~ I've learned that people will forget what you said,
people will forget what you did,
but people will never forget how you made them feel. ~
Maya Angelou
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