Joy Seeker
How Do You Identify?: Smartly-Flavored
Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess
Relationship Status: Mrs. Syzygy 1/9/14
Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Joyville, NM (aka Land of Enchantment)
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For me personally? No. And yes, I've tried it. More than once. Every time was a colossal failure.
Why? Partly my own insecurity but also my poly partner's seeming need to always find someone else, someone new. As if the current group wasn't enough. I couldn't handle it at all.
Then my partner (who claimed to have given up poly for me even though I never asked her to do that) asked if she could "be friends" with someone. I lost it. Ballistic and sick with rage, I self-destructed and ruined that relationship.
I will never (and yes, I mean never) do poly or any form of it again.
That having been said, I personally know at least two poly families. One of them has been together for more than 15 years so I know it can work. Just takes the right people with some damned strong self-confidence. In my opinion.
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