LeftWriteFemme,
I agree with what you posted. Forgiveness is a two way street when it comes to minor situations. However, I have to disagree with your concept of forgiveness when it involves molestation/abuse. It is about me, and my future. Finding that place that is safe and sound for just me alone - mainly because of my faith.
Part of the Catholic Doctrines:
a. The Ten Commandments: #4 Honor Your Parents
b. The Seven Deadly Sins - Anger, Pride, Lust (pertaining to abuse as I see it)
c. The Works of Mercy - To comfort the afflicted
d. " - To forgive wrongs
e. " - To bear wrongs patiently
This is where I am coming from. I hope this makes sense.
Peace & Love,
Andrew
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