Infamous Member
How Do You Identify?: Lesbian non-stone femme
Preferred Pronoun?: She, her
Relationship Status: Committed to being good to myself
Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: West Coast
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As usual, I say a person is whatever they claim as their ID.
I don't get how anyone, anywhere, can say how someone else identifies; is right or wrong.
Good grief, for a population (LGBTQI) that has had to fight so many obstacles to get to a safe and comfortable place within ourselves, we sure spend time policing others.
I will do the usual caveat, "not on BFP, of course".
My long term ex was stone for the first 10 years of our relationship.
Her choice, who she was.
The last 9 years, she wasn't.
Her choice, who she was.
No matter who I am with or how they identify:
I am never stone.
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~Anya~
Democracy Dies in Darkness
~Washington Post
"...I'm deeply concerned by recently adopted policies which punish children for their parents’ actions ... The thought that any State would seek to deter parents by inflicting such abuse on children is unconscionable."
UN Human Rights commissioner
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