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Play · 05-25-2014, 11:20 AM

One of my favorite times with my girl was one when we weren't quite dating yet
but I asked her to run errands with me one day. I had a list but it was short stops
and we just drove around and talked and laughed.

One of the coolest parts was when she literally sat with her back against the door
and looked right at me. She didn't care where we were going, she was just focused
on me. We listened to great music, laughed at ourselves and others, and then it
got really quiet and that was cool too. She just looked content with a little smile
on her face. I asked what she was thinking about and she just said it was so easy
to hang out with me.

That's what keeps our relationship strong. We genuinely like each other.

Of course it didn't hurt that she touched me frequently in a flirty manner and her
eyes were sparkling.

I guess to sum it all up....Show interest, don't be too serious, light flirty touches
are a plus and be able to be silent without awkwardness. All of this will put me at
ease knowing you are present and happy.

I agree with others with keeping expectations low and just see how it goes.
Light and fun off the start makes me want to know more about who you are
and what makes you "tick".

05-25-2014, 11:20 AM	#13
Play Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Nope Join Date: Feb 2013 Location: Boondocks Posts: 105 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 593 Thanked 381 Times in 95 Posts Rep Power: 2165823	For me.... One of my favorite times with my girl was one when we weren't quite dating yet but I asked her to run errands with me one day. I had a list but it was short stops and we just drove around and talked and laughed. One of the coolest parts was when she literally sat with her back against the door and looked right at me. She didn't care where we were going, she was just focused on me. We listened to great music, laughed at ourselves and others, and then it got really quiet and that was cool too. She just looked content with a little smile on her face. I asked what she was thinking about and she just said it was so easy to hang out with me. That's what keeps our relationship strong. We genuinely like each other. Of course it didn't hurt that she touched me frequently in a flirty manner and her eyes were sparkling. I guess to sum it all up....Show interest, don't be too serious, light flirty touches are a plus and be able to be silent without awkwardness. All of this will put me at ease knowing you are present and happy. I agree with others with keeping expectations low and just see how it goes. Light and fun off the start makes me want to know more about who you are and what makes you "tick".