Miss Scarlett,
Just for clarity, this is a "Transman" (your word) identified person who is not yet on T?
Meaning, you didn't think that you were out on a date with a biological male and he came out to you as FTM, correct?
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I agree Anya, I think it is very different to meet a person who tells you they are going to/might go on testosterone, than to have your currently female identified partner tell you they plan to go on testosterone.
Perhaps it would be less of a big deal for the partner who dates (or who have found themselves attracted to), both butches (female/male identified) and FTMs, but I can imagine it would be quite traumatic for a person who only dates butches. Especially if their partner had also identified as a woman. Huge loss. Huge carpet pulled out from under you.
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-Dapper
Are you educated or indoctrinated?
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