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Originally Posted by Kätzchen
I definitely like having my own home, my own place. I don't ever foresee giving up my own residence. It's my quiet place where I can retreat from life and take care of me, in ways that add toward feeling good. Especially so, for me, because even though my children are young adults, I want to keep my family life separate from my romantic life. I just feel better when I've got my own place. I'm definitely the type of person who likes living alone, yet apart when dating or in an relationship (together) .
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Originally Posted by girl_dee
i totally relate and do this too! i LOVE my family but i don't want them in my personal relationships. And they can get their own friends!
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I'm really glad you bumped this thread, dee, because last spring is when I made my original post (April?).
And I still think that it's a good idea to keep ones romantic life private and separate from family life and even in our circle of fronds or in general. And I also think it's feasible to maintain one's independence in relationship to others.
But....homoe's post showed me a few things about myself that I couldn't see last spring. I too am very particular and probably do well on my own, but I don't think that living on my own, separate from the one I want to share life with, is a going to be a situation that will work for me. So, my thinking was a bit flawed, last spring. I am glad that homoe stated her ideas like she did or I would have never seen the flaw in my thinking.
I don't think living apart/together will be what I want at all. I definitely want to create a life together with the one I want to spend my life and time with.....
